That's exactly my point. There are also no videos that say she DIDN'T want it either. The way I see it, if we don't know either way, then by default the tapes should stay secret.

So it has to be her kids' choice? I think it shouldn't be anyone's choice. She deserves privacy.

Right exactly, we have no way of knowing what she would want which is exactly the problem.

What if she wouldn't have wanted it and we do it anyways? That doesn't sound like an issue to you?

Ok, maybe you wouldn't care, but would SHE care? I would care so who's to say. I wouldn't care after I was dead but if I knew that was gonna happen to me I'd care.

I think what he's asking isn't if you'll care after your dead about what happens then. What he's asking is do you care right now if your privacy will be invaded ten years after your death. I certainly have things I don't want people to know even after I die. Don't you?

Let me put it this way:

If someone recorded your entire life but you knew the recording wouldn't be released until after you were dead, would you feel bad about the recording?

How do you want to be remembered? I think this matters quite a bit. I think we're all entitled to our own secrets.